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Once upon a time, I was quite repressed. Unhappy childhood and unhappy marriage led to life inside a boring little box I hid within. I never would have dreamed of “creative” sex, let alone owning my own internet adult sex toy store back then.
I’m an avid reader and movie watcher with a passion for story lines that keep you interested by keeping you guessing. Not a fan of sappy romances, I tend to gravitate toward action, adventure, and psychological thrillers. Though I had already started my adult toy store when the buzz around the “Fifty Shades” trilogy started, I was not interested in joining the read-it bandwagon. My personal sexual revolution did not involve hardcore bondage. In fact the premise I started my store around was to provide a safe and friendly environment for women like me who are starting over and want to see what they’ve been missing out on.
I finally gave in and purchased the first book in the series. Why buy the whole trilogy if I lost interest during the first? To my surprise, these books aren’t really about “mommy porn”, “kinky fuckery”, or any of the other terms I’ve heard in reference to the trilogy. “Fifty Shades” is about relationships, boundaries, personal sacrifice, and at the very heart of the matter…trust. It takes full trust in someone to be comfortable experimenting sexually. You even have to have trust yourself to begin experimenting with vibrators, dildos, and all the other assorted adult toys.
Start small but start somewhere. Learn to trust. Try fuzzy handcuffs or a silky mask during foreplay. Try a vibrator by yourself for the first time so you’ll learn what works and what doesn’t before you try it with your partner for the first time. You might feel a little funny or uncomfortable the first time, but with practice you’ll learn to trust each other. Before long you’ll unleash your inner goddess who will smile with happiness every time you explore something new and exciting in your sexual world.
We are over 40 and we are fabulous ladies! We are sexy, lovable, and we know what we want when it comes to sex. Adult sex toys certainly add a little something-something to mix!! Check our the video for more ideas.
The ever elusive g-spot. I personally have no idea whether it’s really there or not but looking for it is a lot of fun!
Here is some interesting reading about the wonderful g-spot.
It’s a lot better if you don’t have to fake it.
You can burn up to 200 calories during 30 minutes of vigorous sex.(via @Sexy Texts+)
I’m not a professional with a degree in relationships or psychology. I don’t hang out in seedy adult shops at night or stay up late watching porn. I don’t have accounts at any of the internet “hook up tonight” websites. I don’t promote the bondage or S&M side of sex. Hey, if that’s what you’re into, I respect that, but that’s NOT what this site it about.
I spent over two decades in a marriage that was unfulfilling to my body, mind, and soul. Repressed growing up to repressed adulthood, I concentrated on my career instead of me. Fast forward to a hair into my 40′s when I realized there is way more to life than pretending to be happy.
I spent time learning who I really am and began a new journey learning about my sexuality and what I really wanted. Before long I got divorced and started my new life. No, not my new life, my REAL life! Sex is good, sex is fun! Then I had a thought. I’m sure I’m not the only women discovering herself after years of being who others wanted her to be. And here in lies the reason I started this blog with a complementary sex toy store.
It’s a place to feel safe while learning about new toys and relationships while not feeling pressured or overwhelmed by concepts that might be a little “out there” for women like you and me. So bookmark the blog, stop by often, feel free to comment and contribute, and most of all HAVE FUN while you learn about vibrators, dildos, dongs, sex in the shower, the benefits of sex toy cleaners, lubricants, and tasty treats to turn you both on.
Working on a relationship? Why not try out something different to mix things up? Give the shower a try…
I found this article with other relationship building ideas. Break Free from Your Relationship Ruts
Sex is good for you. It relieves stress…proven fact! Guess what? You don’t have to get it on with a partner to have a great orgasm! Vibrators, dildos and dongs are a great way to relieve stress when you don’t have that significant other handy. Check out our selection of great toys that can be used solo or with a partner, and all priced below retail!!
Here is a great article for more information on the benefits of relieving stress. Sex as a Stress Management Technique